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❥ Sawaal: Assalamualaikum.
Mufti shb mujhy aap se aik masla maloom kerna hy… hamary haan perday ka nizam bilkul bhi nahi hy… hamary haan shadiyan bohat dhoom dham se hoti hain… jin me mayon…mehandi… shadi aur valima hota hy…mix gathering hoti hy…music wegera sab hota hy… shadi se pehly ghar me gany bajty hain aur halls me in 4ron taqareeb me bhi music ka ahtimam hota hy…mai perdah kerti hon…aur meny tamam shadiyon…parties wegera me jana chordia hy… mai unmarried hon… masla yeh hy k mera aik he bhai hay ALHAMDOLILLAH… ham ne uska rishta lagaya hy… ab eid k baad uski shadi kerny ka irada hy… aur uski shadi bhi mujhy lagta hy isi tareeqay se hogi jis terhan meny oper bayan kia hy… q k meny kafi kaha k separation ker lo mgr koi raazi nahi… aur ghar me in sab rasmon ko ada kerny ka bhi zikar hota rehta hy… mera area kaafi posh hy or bht sunsaan hy… masla yeh hy k mai kia karon bhai ki shadi me jaon ya na jaon? Agar nahi jaongi to bhai mujhse baat kerna chordega… mery ghar me mery perday ki wajah se sab mery against hain or aksar ghar me bht bary bary jhagray bhi hoty hain jin me sab ghar waly aik taraf hoty hain aur mai akeeli aik taraf hoti hon aur mujhy ammi abbu se or bhai behanon se bht ziada lagti hoe or chubhti hoe batain bhi sunna perti hain…mai khud logon ko bht mana kerti hon k is terhan ki shadiyan na attend kia karain k yeh gair qaum se mushabihat hy or mix gathering gunnah e kabeera hy… mujhy thora guide karain k mai apny mamly me kia karon? Kise ne mujhse kaha k chali jao q k ghar walon ko bhi naraz nahi kerna chahiye kbhi kbhi unki baat bhi maan leni chahiye mgr us mehfil me kasrat se Astaghfaar kerty rehna chahiye… mufti shb mera dil bilkul nahi hy apny bhai ki shadi attend kerny ka q k bht kharafaat hain in rasmon me… ghar waly akeela ghar me nahi chorengy k area posh hy kaafi…mujhy bataen mai kia karon?? JAZAKALLAH
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